Saturday, December 12, 2015

Surfs Up!




For the next few weeks I'm going to be writing about Hawaii... There is so much history, legend, and rich cultural heritage in Hawaii I have been reluctant to tread where scholars and native Hawaiians have written the definitive view and history of the islands and it's people. I will simply offer my viewpoint and experiences.  Although not a true kama'aina in that I was not born in the islands to generations of others who have contributed to Hawaii and helped shape it's culture and growth;  I have the kama'aina spirit in a sense of belonging and acceptance of Hawaii and it's people. I came to Hawaii for the first time when I was four years old and my heart has been there ever since. For me Hawaii is always a physical and spiritual rebirth every time I return; as no where else on earth do I feel more at home. "Komo ma'i! Nou ka hale!" Come in! The house is yours!  Such is Aloha the spirit of caring and sharing.

I took my first surfing lesson when I was about nine years old in California


My first board was one of Dewey Weber's



but I did not really even begin to learn how to surf until I started to surf in Hawaii as a teenager in search like many others for the perfect wave. To be perfectly honest with you I am not and never have been a great surfer; at my best I was a good surfer because being great was always impeded by a tango danced between my skill and vast insecurities riding waves... but the bottom line for me like so many others is... it's a rush and I have always had fun doing it.

The history of surfing in Hawaii can be traced as far back to the Polynesian's who settled in Hawaii and was considered a sacred activity; the first boards were heavy slabs of wood. The  ocean and waves are and always have been a huge part of Hawaiian culture and there are as many names for types of waves as Inuit cultures have for types of snow.

Captain Cook and his crew searching for the Northwest Passage became the first Westerners to make contact with Hawaii; it's difficult to imagine  two more culturally different  groups of people than the Hawaiians and Westerners that is  sadly sometime still evident today. Captain Cook is credited with  writing about wave-riding in his journals... Hawaiians referred to it as papa he'e nalu meaning "board for wave sliding".

After centuries of isolation in the mid-pacific the contact with Westerners imported sickness, disease and death as venereal disease covered the length and breadth of the Hawaiian islands. In the decades that followed  further contact with outsiders introduced most of the deadly diseases the world knows including cholera, tuberculosis, bubonic plague and leprosy and interestingly the common cold and cut the indigenous population of 400,000 at Cook's arrival to 40,000; as historically written but subsequently disputed by Hawaiian scholars and now the accepted numbers of the initial population is one million people that dwindled to a mere 50,000. It was not just the disease that  devastated the locals but native customs and culture and the economic, religious and social practices were decimated  by the arrival of the American Christian missionaries  in the early 19th century. This period marked the beginning of the Dark Ages  for surfing which was banned as a pagan ritual. The missionaries clothed the locals and converted them to Christianity and forbade any activities that interfered with religion. Fortunately a small coterie of resisters  started to grow on the beaches of Oahu and became known as "beach boys" and kept the tradition of surfing alive and became something of a destination to the number of tourists  arriving on the island. 

Duke Kahanamoku


Among the most famous beach boys in Waikiki and the man who is regarded as "The Father Of Modern Surfing" is  Duke Paoa Kahina Mokoe Hulikohola Kahanamoku.


In 1911 Kahanamoku founded the Hui Nalu Surf Club (Club Of The Waves), in 1912 he won the Olympic gold medal swimming in Stockholm and through his style, presence and skill became a world sensation and subsequently won medals in the 1920 and 1924 games.  In 1914 he introduced surfing  to Australia and New Zealand and subsequently  on the United States mainland. While traveling on the mainland Duke met a man named Tom Blake who was fascinated with surfing  and ultimately dedicating his life to it and eventually inventing the first  hollow boards becoming an instant success and paving the road to mass production making them more accessible.


Living briefly in Southern California he leveraged his olympic fame into a film career...

Duke Kahanamoku in the movies:
"Surfari"
"Free and Easy"
"This Is Your Life"
"Mister Roberts"
"Wake of the Red Witch"
"The Black Camel"
"Around the World with Douglas Fairbanks"
"Isle of Escape"
"Girl of the Port"
"The Rescue"
"Isle of Sunken Gold"
"Lord Jim"
"No Father to Guide Him"
"The Pony Express"
"Adventure"
He worked tirelessly for Hawaii to join  the Union as as 50th state. "He became the Ambassador of Aloha" he taught Queen Elizabeth, the Queen Mother to hula dance and promoted  Don Ho's career and surfed well into his 70's ( I hope to be doing the same) The nine foot bronze statue of "The Duke" in Waikiki  welcomes the world with true aloha spirit.


Here are few things you ought to know...
closeout – a wave or a large section of a wave that breaks at the same time, making it impossible to continue surfing the open face of the wave
down the line – along the face of the wave duck dive – a technique used to paddle out past a breaking wave.  Arms push the nose of the surfboard down while the knee or foot pushes down on the tail as the surfer dips below the passing wave. face – the open, unbroken part of a wave green wave – an open wave allowing the surfer to surf along the face of the wave, going either left or right parallel with the beach instead of straight towards the beach inside – when paddling for a wave, “inside” refers to the person closest to the peak of the wave.  “Inside” also refers to the shallower part of the water closest to shore. kick out – to surf out of the wave, ending your ride (also called flicking out) deep – the steepest part of the shoulder closest to the peak of the wave is considered the deepest part of the wave.  Often when a surfer is “too deep” they are unable to drop in to a wave without falling off of their board lineup – the area where the waves normally begin breaking.  Surfers sit on their boards in the lineup and wait for waves to break. longboard – a longer, wider, thicker surfboard.  Longboards catch waves much easier than shortboards but are much harder to control and turn. outside – when paddling for a wave, “outside” refers to the person further away from the peak of the wave.  “Outside” also refers to the deeper part of the water, where the biggest waves break, further from shore. left – a left is a wave that is breaking to the left.  The direction “Left” is used by the surfer when describing the direction of the wave while facing shore.  Therefore, from the beach, a “left” is described as a wave that breaks from left to right. peak – the immediately breaking part of the wave. right – a right is a wave that is breaking to the right.  The direction “right” is used by the surfer when describing the direction of the wave while facing shore.  Therefore, from the beach, a “right” is described as a wave that breaks from right to left. section – a part of a wave.  When a surfer “makes a section” a surfer is staying in front of a breaking section of the wave. set wave – a larger wave (the largest waves usually break in sets of 2,3, or 4) shortboard – a shorter, narrower, thinner surfboard.  It is more difficult to catch a wave on a shortboard than it is on a longboard, but a shortboard can be controlled/turned much easier. shoulder – the unbroken section of the wave directly next to the peak turtle roll – a technique used to paddle a longboard out past a breaking wave.  Longboards are generally too big to duck dive.  With the turtle roll technique the surfer turns upside-down and propels the surfboard (also upside down) through the breaking wave. whitewash – the broken white water of a wave moving straight towards shore


Oh... and about naked surfing ... you need to go to a sanctioned nude beach and if the water is fit for surfing there is usually and invitational event but...




It sounds a little more exciting and adventurous until you have been pummeled against the
rocks or pounded into the surf with nothing protecting your most vulnerable parts not to mention getting sand up your okole... I've only done it once at Black's Beach in San Diego.

Your ultimate goal is to get a clean ride on the shoulder of the wave--- to do this you have to steer the board by standing up and using your feet to turn the board away from the break and ride the wave at an angle... Does this sound like Greek to you? Then you need to go to surfing school--- almost every hotel and surf shop on Oahu has someone they can recommend to you... The Banzai Pipeline, Sunset Beach and Waimea are the magic names to the brotherhood of Oahu surfers... but I recommend trying the gentler sets of waves in Waikiki if you are a beginner. Always pick the best surfing spots for your ability. For the most up to the minute weather and surf reports on Oahu call 808 973-4380.

Oh... and last but certainly not least---

  1. First surfer up closest to the curl has the right of way.
  2. Paddle around the break to get out.
  3. Hang on to your board and look out for other surfers.
  4. Help other surfers in trouble.
  5. Respect the beach and the ocean.
See you next time--- I'll be talking about island food... from Spam to Luau recipes to Shrimp Trucks and everything in between. Me ke aloha!




Monday, December 7, 2015

Kiss Me Goodbye

I've crossed a certain intersection on PCHwy1 close to where I used to live about a zillion times but once stuck in a traffic jam listening to Billy Joel sing "Say Goodbye To Hollywood" on the radio I first started to understand that life is a series of hellos and goodbyes and moving on is the chance that you sometimes have to take... sadly near this same intersection I had to say one of the most heartbreaking and life changing goodbyes of my entire life.


It took me a long time to really appreciate that endings are just new beginnings in disguise... and if we don't take a leap of faith that is sometimes terrifying we are likely to stagnate and never realize our true potential or find our best place in life. One of my favorite inspirations is "If you want to catch the wave that is going to change your life you can't be afraid to swim outside of your comfort zone." this is especially scary as many of the waters we have to tread in life are filled with sharks both real and metaphorically. One only needs to imagine that if Meryl Streep did not have faith in herself and her talent she might have stayed in Summit New Jersey and would now be a High School drama teacher performing in community theatre (not that there is anything wrong with either choice as I've done both)... but you understand what I mean by taking a leap of faith into the unknown?

We all have moved on from bad relationships or horrible employers and these are the easy decisions (well sometimes not so easy) to make a plan to walk away from and find a new   or improved or just an updated life. Some decisions and goodbyes are made for us by the design and/or fate of others and we have to do our best to swim safely to the shore and find something or someone to buoy our spirit or simply  tread water while we devise a new plan--- but remember if you want to reach distant lands you sometimes have to have courage to loose site of the shore and sometimes you have to do it alone. (OK I promise no more platitudes this week) Some relationships and situations have clear timelines and expiration dates others don't and you have to be fairly savvy to read and interpret the signs and signals that you need to move forward.

You may need to get away to look at something different for a while to get a better perspective of what is already in front of you... one of the places that I've always liked to go to clear my thoughts is Palm Springs California... it's one of the places on earth I always wake up before the sun rises and feel refreshed and ready to face the day... there is something in the air there that stimulates me (one of those things is night blooming jasmine it's one of my favorite scents in nature)... in addition to looking at a different landscape it's wonderfully regenerating to wake up someplace different to face a new day.

But I feel the same way in Santa Fe New Mexico and in Mykonos.

I usually find that packing a bag and heading someplace with nice sunsets and/or sunrises helps to sort out the loose ends and untie the knots life sometimes throws at us... However I once spent two years living on an island in the Caribbean on what started as short holiday... I felt a bit like Shirley Valentine (If you have not seen that movie you probably should it will lift your spirits and might give you another perspective on taking a chance on yourself)... but my life was really complicated  on a personal and professional level at the time and it simply took a couple of years to sort everything out. I made wonderful new friends and memories and the experiences and insights have made me who I am today.

I've made a lot of wrong and bad decisions along the way but I always made the best decision available at the time and by alchemy chanced and/or alchemy planned the resolutions from initial or the ensuing problems led me to the place or people I eventually needed. Some decisions are easier than others to make but it all depends on the circumstances surrounding the big issue and if other people are involved etc etc etc... but one thing is always true... you can never go wrong by doing the right thing, whether it's standing up for yourself to a bully or providing your employees with good health insurance... I've said it before because I've seen it happen too many times... "When you make the worst possible decisions and choices you are likely to end up with the worst possible conclusion." and those are the  ones that are the most difficult to dig yourself out of...Sometimes you can't and you just have to pull yourself out of whatever hole you wound up in and brush yourself off and start all over again and search for the things in life that are important to you and the people who you find some common ground with and start rebuilding from the foundation up.

There are so many friends and faces in and out of our lives as we move through the different passages of  living  and dreaming our dreams and planning our plans and some are important only for the moment and won't stand the test of time that real friendship needs to thrive and grow; but if we learn the important lessons that these people are here to teach us in their brief tenure or what we have given them or if touched and tended to their spirit in some way than none are wasted moments, thoughts or gestures.

I'm going to give you a few travel and packing tips if you need to get away for a brief fling with yourself... If you stay longer than two weeks you are on your own.

I have a vintage Louis Vuitton carry on bag that if packed properly will see me through about any trip...  (Just keep in mind I tend to stay in places that are clothing optional so I don't need numerous wardrobe changes)... but you need some clothes to see the sights and get to and from the airport.


  1. Go someplace warm and tropical you don't need to pack heavy and/or bulky clothing and accessories.
  2. Wear your best outfit on the plane and try to pick something comfortable that will still look fresh(ish) if by fate it takes you 24 hours before you have a chance to change clothes again.
  3. Pack a pair of light weight trousers that  will work with the jacket you wore on the plane (I forgot to tell you to make sure you wear a jacket + a cotton jumper (sweater) or cardigan on the plane... the blankets they hand out now are crap for trying to stay warm) a pair of jeans, a clean white and sky blue cotton long sleeved shirt, a couple pair of short pants 2-3 tank tops a couple tee-shirts one white and one in a fun color. (I'm partial to pink or turquoise) an extra cotton pull over jumper or cardigan and a short sleeved polo style shirt I'm partial to Paul & Shark (The trick is that everything should able to be worn with everything else ( I always take a pareo sarong too but that's just me; it can be optional if you wish)... a pair of sneakers and a pair of rubber slippers (most people on the mainland of the US refer to them as flip-flops) Pack whatever beauty or grooming items in the airline size regulation zip lock bag (If you need more than sample sizes of anything mail it to your destination before you leave. I don't wear undergarments as a rule but if you need them roll them up and put them in your shoes. Take an extra pair of dress socks for your return flight or if someone invites you someplace fancy ... almost done... a bathing frock of your choice a hat to protect  your face and hair from the sun and a notebook and pen for jotting down ideas and for making plans... and don't forget your camera. Leave your laptop at home... you are unplugged from everything you left behind to contemplate. If you need to wear glasses pack an extra pair just in case... and a small bottle of Forever New fabric wash (ideal for hand washing in hotel sinks) If you need anything else buy it when you get there or ship it ahead with your grooming articles.
  4. Make sure you pack Purell and use it on the armrests and tray table... aircraft are filthy... don't even think about using the seat pocket in front of you... I've seen people leave dirty disposable diapers in there... ditto with the blankets and pillows unless you are on the first flight of the day and it's in a plastic bag.
  5. Be friendly to everyone but try to keep a nice cool pleasant distance (think Greta Garbo) as you are there to sort your life out... not get laid or play a supporting role in some new drama... (I've broken this rule more times than I can count) and sometimes it has actually helped (the getting laid business not the vacation drama part)  instead of becoming a stress and decision add-on.
  6. Don't be afraid to take a chance on yourself and try some of the new things life and this destination has to offer you... if you buy something you might want to consider mailing it home as your bag is already pretty full. (I sometimes buy local news papers and magazines and ship everything plus any pre-shipped oversize grooming and beauty items home at book rate).
  7. If something tells you to leave early or extend your stay listen to youe inner-voice! It's usually always right!

The beauty of traveling lightly in life and on short trips is that it sets you free to enjoy yourself and not worry about excess baggage... literally or metaphorically. Have fun and make sure to  mail me a postcard!